Let’s kick-start that steam. What’s the best way? It’s simple, you can try harder and also test some new sex positions.
You may just reach new heights in your relationship if you make everything fun and pleasurable – both in and out of the bedroom.
In the section below we have discussed all Things That Women Actually Want In Bed and you’ll get the best deal.
What Do Women Want Men To Do In Bed?
Now, let’s answer the most awaited question What Do Women Want Most During Sex?
Sex peaks and valleys will happen in every relationship, no matter how deeply you are into each other.
While one of those droughts is on, it can be easy to become stale or turn to ‘solo time’. But let’s get that steam flowing.
How can we get it started?
It’s just a matter of trying harder (and perhaps trying some new sexual positions). You may just reach new heights with your relationship if you keep things fun and pleasurable for both of you – in and out of the bedroom.
Activating the accelerator and deactivating the brakes are two steps in the process of becoming aroused.
It is in what turns on the accelerator and what hits the brakes that men and women differ.
Thanks to science, we now know what those factors are and how to create them in our lives.
You can create the following things women want in bed in your life using science: Things Women Want in Bed:
Pleasure
Pleasure is what women want. However, it is situation-dependent. It can feel funny and sexy to be tickled by someone special when you are in a sexy, flirty mood.
It may even lead to cookies if you’re in a sexy, flirty mood.
Yet if that same Special Someone tries to tickle you and you feel frustrated and annoyed, you just want to punch them in the face.
The master. Or a servant. Or both…at the same time!
Romance novels refer to it as “The Hero” due to its heteronormativity. Most romance novels have a “masterful” hero who dominates the heroine…but if you read closely, you’ll find that a “masterful” hero has a lot in common with the real-life “personal assistant.”
He protects her, feeds her, prioritizes her pleasure above his. In order to make her feel comfortable, he gets her drinks, dresses her, gets her a car, and then ties her to the bed while he gives her four orgasms.
To be passionately courted.
Often in romance novels-and in research studies-the hero wants the heroine to be a laser-focused individual.
The man’s only desire is to have sex with her partner. His body is his worship. Nobody else can understand her as he can.
According to the research, feelings of desire and acceptance are linked to the way in which you are approached or initiated and the timing of it.
It is about receiving focused, special attention that demonstrates your partner thinks about you even while you aren’t around, that they are aware of your needs.
Confidence, both in ourselves and in our partners.
When you are confident about your body and know what makes you tick, you are in control. Education and practice help you achieve that.
It is important to remember that your partner’s body is different from what is true about yours. Each of us is different and neither right nor wrong.
The number of sexual expressions on earth is as great as the number of humans, and the basis of confidence is knowing which type of sexuality applies in every case.
Joy
Being in love with our bodies and our sexuality is what brings us joy. But it’s not always easy.
You may have difficulty accepting what you are if your sexuality does not conform to what you were told it “should” be.
Many of us struggle to love ourselves because we’ve been taught that our bodies need to look and behave in totally unnatural ways.
The Bottom Line
It’s not that complicated to be a woman. Feeling good, feeling safe and protected, being the object of intense, specific desire, and understanding and accepting ourselves as we are, are all things we desire.
It’s just a universal desire we all share. Even in a culture that says women are broken, flawed, and unlovable, it is not always easy.
When the right context is in place, our desire for sensuality and our satisfaction with it will grow like a flame meeting the air.
